Finding a Place to Call Home: Queer Experiences of Housing in Azerbaijan

For queer people in Azerbaijan, having a place to live safely is not just about rent or location—it’s about being able to exist without constant vigilance. Public spaces often feel hostile, and apartments become the only places where people can let their guards down. Several queer participants shared their experiences of trying to find housing that feels secure, private, and just… livable.

Spending time indoors isn’t just a preference—it’s often a necessity. “Most of the time, I just stay in my apartment,” said one participant. “Walking outside is stressful. People stare, comment, sometimes even follow you. At least at home, I can breathe.” Another added, “I feel like my apartment is the only place where I don’t have to watch my back all the time.” For many, the walls of their home are the only place they can feel truly safe.

Image credits: Queer Art Festival Baku

Finding such a space, however, is difficult. Many landlords prefer families or women-only tenants, which makes it harder for queer people to secure an apartment. “I called about a place and they said it’s for a family,” said one participant. “Even when I explained I’m a professional woman, it didn’t matter.” Another participant shared, “Sometimes you have to pretend your life is different just to get a place. It feels exhausting, but you don’t have many options.” Even when an apartment is found, people often have to be careful about who they let into their space.

Money adds another layer of difficulty. “Rent is high, but my income isn’t steady,” said one participant. “I do freelance work, so every month is a worry—rent, bills, groceries. Sometimes you just have to settle for something smaller or further away.” Another explained, “Even when I find a decent apartment, I’m always thinking ahead. Can I afford this next month if something happens at work? That stress never goes away.” For queer people, housing and finances are tightly connected, and both can feel unstable at once.

Homes also matter because they’re where queer people can meet and spend time together. Public spaces—cafes, parks, or clubs—often aren’t safe, so apartments become the places where friendships and community can grow. “Most of our gatherings happen at someone’s apartment,” said one participant. “It’s the only place where we can be ourselves and not worry about being judged or reported.” Another added, “Without these spaces, we wouldn’t have anywhere to meet at all. Outside, there’s too much risk.”

Privacy is also crucial for dating and intimacy. “Meeting someone safely outside is almost impossible,” one participant said. “At home, it’s private, but you’re always thinking—what if someone finds out? You have to be careful.” Another explained, “Even with someone I trust, I plan ahead. My apartment is the only place I feel comfortable being close to someone.” Homes aren’t just about living—they’re where queer people can connect and feel seen without fear.

For queer people in Azerbaijan, having a place to live is about more than just shelter. It’s about safety, community, and having a little control over your life. Every lease signed, every key turned, is a small victory in a world that often doesn’t leave much room for queer lives.

Image credits: Queer Art Festival Baku

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